Remove dependency on Chocolatey about node

[aduh95]

The issue is that the Windows installer suggests to install Chocolatey, correct? If someone sends a PR to use a different package manager, it seems likely to me that it'd be accepted.

[cinderblock]

That seems correct to me. Most other installers I've used don't install some other tool to install more optional tools.

I guess there isn't really a reason to depend on winget either. In my experience, usually installers with optional features give a more detailed drop down that allows users to opt in to each set of optional features directly - no external tooling necessary.

I'm thinking something like this:

Looking at the code, there are only a couple references to "chocolatey". It should be easy enough to replace/update install_tools.bat to use winget - but maybe something higher level in the installer configuration would look better - maybe a user wants to use some existing python binary and to use gcc instead of VCTools (getting node-gyp to support that flexibility is outside the scope of this change) or different versions of Visual Studio.