[data grid] Warn when `scrollToIndexes` has invalid arguments about mui-x

[oukunan]

it looks like the index does not exist on the first page of pagination, indicating that the DataGrid component's pagination is enabled by this override variable. Let's say we attempt to update rowIndex into the first page's range. It will work with scrollToIndexes in this case.

[oliviertassinari]

In my reproduction, we are trying to scroll to an index that isn't in the scroll container, but the grid says nothing about it.

I would expect something in that order: https://codesandbox.io/p/sandbox/auto-row-height-forked-n684rg?file=%2Fsrc%2Findex.js%3A79%2C12